I am not a parents now. I'm just an 18 years college girl. I have already spent my life without my parents for 2 months. Maybe I sound too childish but I really miss my old time, when i had my mother beside me every single day. Of course I'm growing and I know I'm not a child anymore. It feels really weird but I suddenly realize there is a person who feels weirder and harder than i do.
She is my mother. Six months a go i was a worrying child. Don't know where to go and don't know to take care of my self. I understand why she did not want me to study too far.
I told her that I had some difficulties for adapting here. And I think she is more afraid and more worried than I do. She send me a message every day for asking about my condition.
Today she send me a message and I do love it's content. In my opinion it is good to share, cause I think every mother want to say this words for her children when they are going to live alone far from her. Just check this out.
" woke up, see that everything already changing in my life, one thing still make me realize you and your brother are not kids anymore. Grows and should let you point your future and your personality. It just happens. Just six months a go, you made me 'n your father worry that you could not manage yourself forward. We are wrong, saw you walk there yourself and you are survive.... Of course sometimes you are worry and unsure for everything in front of you but still we see your hope, your light inside you still light up. We are happy.... So.....,. Go and be yourself, kick and run as fast as you can. You are our daughter, very special in our heart and unique. Love you....., your Ibu."
It is a nice message and I know how hard for every parent to let their children go. It is a hard phase to pass through, and i think as their children we should help them. Whatever you look like or whatever you have done in the past, they are still have such difficulty. Just do as best as you can, show them hope and you all can help them to pass through this phase.
She is my mother. Six months a go i was a worrying child. Don't know where to go and don't know to take care of my self. I understand why she did not want me to study too far.
I told her that I had some difficulties for adapting here. And I think she is more afraid and more worried than I do. She send me a message every day for asking about my condition.
Today she send me a message and I do love it's content. In my opinion it is good to share, cause I think every mother want to say this words for her children when they are going to live alone far from her. Just check this out.
" woke up, see that everything already changing in my life, one thing still make me realize you and your brother are not kids anymore. Grows and should let you point your future and your personality. It just happens. Just six months a go, you made me 'n your father worry that you could not manage yourself forward. We are wrong, saw you walk there yourself and you are survive.... Of course sometimes you are worry and unsure for everything in front of you but still we see your hope, your light inside you still light up. We are happy.... So.....,. Go and be yourself, kick and run as fast as you can. You are our daughter, very special in our heart and unique. Love you....., your Ibu."
It is a nice message and I know how hard for every parent to let their children go. It is a hard phase to pass through, and i think as their children we should help them. Whatever you look like or whatever you have done in the past, they are still have such difficulty. Just do as best as you can, show them hope and you all can help them to pass through this phase.